Wives

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Amy says, it all began to know as her husband seemed to intimate details about their girlfriends.

"He drop snippets in conversations would, as the knowledge of Sarah's baby Really private things that he wouldn't have known. When I asked how he knew these things, he would say that I would have said, the blame for him and for me to lose you," she says.

Amy is not her real name - began to ask how he seemed to know where she was, all the time.

"Sometimes he would say he saw me in a cafe, where I was, my Friends , to meet and to say he was just passing through by accident. I began to question, and trust no one, even my Friends ," she says.

for months, these structured transactions, the came out of an abusive marriage to A Nightmare , a terrifying conclusion to a Halloween family trip.

"We've had a visitor, A Pumpkin patch and have been having a rare good weekend, which basically means, my husband would not have anything on me. Our six-year-old son playing on The Floor and was so happy," Amy.

"My husband handed me his phone to Show Me a picture that he had taken, on The Farm , and in that split second, I saw a warning pop up on his screen. It read, " Daily report on Amy Mac is ready to view. '

"I felt the cold go through me, and I stopped breathing for a minute. I had to apologize and did, as I needed The Bathroom . I had it for my son and pretend I didn't see anything.

"The First moment I could, I went to the library, to the computer and locate the spyware that he had used. The thinking is, if everything made sense, after months, I was crazy. "

Stalker goods - also known as spouse goods - are powerful monitoring software programs are generally sold to the public online.

On one device, can read all messages, on-screen activity is recorded, the GPS positions tracked and the cameras used to spy on what the individual is doing.

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to Add a security app - antivirus software can also detect spyware and remove it,

source: BBC

According to cyber security firm Kaspersky, The Number of people that have discovered increased such software on their devices by at least 35% in The Past year.

the Kaspersky researchers say that their protection have recognized technologies that Stalker goods at 37,532 units so far this year.

And the principal security researcher David Emm said, this is the "tip of a very large iceberg".

"Most of the people will protect routinely, a laptop or desktop, not that many people actually protect a mobile device," he says.

"This information is on the back of installations of our product on [smartphones]. so this figure is not even close to what would be the sum. "

Kaspersky findings suggest Russia is the country with the highest levels of Stalker of goods activity. India, Brazil, the United States and Germany complete the Top Five , with the UK in eighth place with 730 detections.

Another security company says, there are practical steps that can be taken by people if they suspect that you will have already spied on.

"It is always advisable to which apps on your phone and run a virus scan if necessary and if there are any apps on your device that you don't recognize, it online worth-search for reviews, and delete it," says Jake Moore, of Eset.

"does not apply As a General rule, if you delete an app. "

as soon As Amy realized that her computer was compromised have been discounted, she developed a strong distrust of the technology, you are only overcoming.

say charities, this is a common psychological reaction to such a trauma.

Jessica was another victim of a Stalker goods. Her ex-husband routinely spies on you through your phone's microphone and play mind games through the repetition of certain phrases, had you and your Friends used in private conversations.

It's been years since she escaped The Relationship , but you can still have your cell phone Locked In The Car , when Friends see.

Stalker goods is often used to monitor victim's locations and news

Gemma Toynton, the domestic violence charity Safer Places, said, you see this long-term effect, a lot of in their cases.

"It's someone with reduced confidence," she says. "It makes you see a cell phone or laptop as a weapon, because that's what it's been used for.

"the technology has The Internet in their heads like a net around you and many people from the benefits of the.

"is It life really has no impact on her whole. The fact that this Stalker goods is on The Rise , is a real concern. "

Amy, who is from the USA, is now divorced and lives many Miles Away from her ex-husband.

they prevent an injunction to him out of Direct Contact with her, and he is legally allowed to communicate logistics about your son, by written letter only.

to The Test -the perpetrators were known, with victims finger access to mobile phones prints to install the software

I tested out of one of The Most popular consumer products, the cost is £140 for three months of monitoring.

I bought it online and installed it on my phone. It took about an hour and I took advantage of the 24-hour live support offered by The Company , if I have any problems.

Spyware companies advertise their services as "employee monitoring" or "Parental Control " products.

In many countries, including the UK, with the spyware that is on a spouse without their consent is illegal, so many companies sites are littered with disclaimers advising against this.

But, some of the same websites link to articles, seemingly written by associates, recommend the software as a spying tool for "cheating Wives and husbands".

In a live chat with The Company whose product I tested was, I, I want to direct said to them: "you can install it on the phone To My wife, will it be secret?"

The customer service representative replied: "The application will start to work in stealth mode immediately after installation. I'll be happy to help. "

I also downloaded five of The Top cyber-security products on the infected mobile, and performed the free scan.

All of them gave warnings for "potentially dangerous software".

The Crown Prosecution Service says that it does not have specific laws regarding the use of Stalker goods, but criminal activities like this can be followed by A Number of means, including the protection from harassment Act 1997.

Amy says that more should be done to legislate against the use of these technologies.

"you need to stop hiding behind plausible deniability," she says.

"It's a wink that's not returned when you send this little disclaimer that says 'We approve of the spying on women. "You know what your customers are doing though. This software is causing real Harm . "

domestic abuse, cyber-stalking, phone hacking, cyber-security

Source of news: bbc.com