Happiness Is

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This is what Mufseen Miah tweeted just a few hours before the message came that The Duke and Duchess of Sussex, the British Royal Family .

Mufseen left His Family in December and begins in the year 2020, regardless of his next-of-kin.

"I went on Christmas, and benach, says rich saturated My Family , 'Please don't contact me unless it is an emergency. I need some space," he says beat Radio 1 News.

Mufseen is gay and from a religious Muslim Family in Brighton. On The Surface , don't you think maybe, a 28-year-old British-Bengali man has a lot in common with The Royals .

But Mufseen believes there are more similarities between your life now, as it may seem.

'parents have an idea of what Happiness Is For You ,'

"You're born into A Family , and you have all these expectations that you, the right way To Live your life. Your parents and Family have an idea of what Happiness Is For You ," he says.

"is thrown out The Window if you tell them what really makes you happy and what you want to do.

"It's not really hard to, the child goes to their parents and say, 'This is what I want. "

Mufseen came out to His Family eager to three years ago and says that his relationship with his parents and siblings, then became "", and "strange".

Mufseen lives in London, works in Finance and is a LGBT activist, but feels forced to act differently, to his parents in Brighton, as he and his friends.

He was financially independent of His Family since moving to London.

"Every time I go to My Family , it feels Like I'm reduced to a disguised child again for a few days," he says.

"This is really a harmful thing for me, because it really affect my self-confidence. "

Mufseen friends have helped him, and he compares their support with what can be offered Meghan Markle Prince Harry , in their final decision.

"Sometimes you need a Partner that can think, Meghan Markle, I - show you where these healthy boundaries with your Family . "

Meghan and Harry to take a step back, as high-ranking members of the Royal Family and career, financially independent to be

At first, Mufseen was glad that he came in contact with His Family after out, because when he was younger, he thought he might lose contact with them.

"It was a very difficult decision. It is not something I wanted to do," he says.

"In the last couple of years, I'm just grateful to have a relationship with My Family , because when I came, I expected cut off, for everything to be easy and for me, on My Own .

"over time, I realized in the fact that a toxic relationship is worse than no relationship. "

'Asian culture is all about the Family '

Mufseen gets messages on Social Media from people in Asian and Muslim background, congratulated him, and to be proud of, but says that the loss of a relationship to His Family , the cost of life.

"I don't think My Family expected this. In Asian cultures, it is all about the Family ," says Mufseen.

"We live for the next Family event, the next wedding. Family is so important, it's Like their primary social circle as Well . "

Mufseen is a LGBT activist and is involved in the annual Pride In London event

As Harry and Megan, Mufseen the separation of the Family is Still Fresh , but he says his door is always open" if you want the connection to build new".

"I've spent years compromising who I Am in order to protect their feelings. And if you want to have a relationship has a future, then that's okay.

"But you have to tune in to My Life with their faith and their culture. "

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